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A Digital Self

May 10th, 2009

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Mike Elgan blogged in Computerworld about Why you should digitize ‘everything’. In his post, he noted two reasons that triggered his thinking: moving and disasters. In his case, he downsized to be more mobile (a personal choice). The disaster was the Jesusita fire in Santa Barbara.* Elgan noted about his process:

Because much of our stuff was poorly organized, we slogged through every possession, every box, every drawer and considered what to do with every possession we own. Besides being extraordinarily time consuming, the process was also very difficult. When it comes to deciding whether to keep or discard something, where do you draw the line? Old holiday and birthday cards? OK, those can be discarded. Mother’s day cards from kids? Hmmm. Trophies? Yikes! There are a million items that make you feel a loss when you toss, but if you keep them, they’ll be buried unseen for decades.

It’s these same items that are irreplaceable after an unexpected fire, flood, hurricane or other regional or personal disaster.

The solution is to digitize everything. Here’s how.

While Elgan’s experience and advice is very practical, it also raises a larger unanswered question: how do we determine the value of a life writ large? Some might argue that when your stuff (house, furniture, belongings) is gone, and once we die, that’s it–there is no more to it here on earth. However, anyone that has moved away from or lost a really good friend or loved one, or a personally and deeply meaningful artifact or heirloom, the loss is devastating. Funerals are a way to acknowledge the loss, remember the influences of that life, and begin healing.

The question of value remains though. For practical reasons, our insurance company will assign a cost (according to the terms of your policy) for replacement of the physical thing. Similarly, insurance companies and courts may determine the cost of a life wrongfully taken. We know that’s not the right way to frame the question.

What’s lost? The teachings and wisdom, the reflections of accomplishments and memories of proud moments, the documentation or proof of something miraculous. These are not quantifiable, nor do they have a fixed place in history. They are the things that make us who we are as individuals, friends and lovers, and as a culture.

Coaching moment: Take a walk around your house. Is there a box or drawer that you haven’t opened in a few years? Do you remember what’s inside? Does it represent value to you or anyone in your life? If not, box and tape it up, then hand it to a trusted friend to dispose of. You have just lightened your life. Doesn’t that feel good?

If you’ve recently been through a disaster and lost valuables, set aside a couple of days (yes, put this on your calendar as “Do Not Disturb” time) and write stories about those things. If you get stuck or don’t know how to begin, try a description of what it was, and how you felt about it, or how it came to you. If you don’t have online accounts in which to put these things, ask friends to help you. The past and present is in your hands.

* A thank you to Mike for the tweet that helped me alert my friends who also live in the area. That was an unusual moment in time.

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